Should I Stay In My Sexless Marriage?

The hardest question you will ever have to ask yourself is should I stay in my sexless marriage? People often give up too soon on their marriages. They are too quick to say they want out and are not willing to make any effort to make it work. I am not saying that you should stay in a bad relationship, but you should spend some time analyzing the whole situation before you make a final decision.

Over half of all marriages end in divorce and it makes you wonder what has gone wrong with all of them. Is it possible that people can simply fall out of love? I have heard several people say that they "love their spouse", but they are not "IN" love with them. Is this the reason for all of the sexless marriages?

When you ask yourself if you should stay in a sexless marriage, you should realize that the “fireworks” that you experienced at the start of a relationship eventually will tone down. Is this what people are craving? - the “fireworks” and when the fireworks fizzle down you say that you are not “IN” love anymore? It’s something to think about and could be the cause of so many sexless marriages.

In order to get the sex back in a sexless marriage you must realize that marriages do take work and a lot of compromise from both sides. Before you make the decision to end the marriage, you should take some time by yourself, in quiet meditation, and really think it through. Try to visualize your life without your spouse. Would you be happier? Do you think you would miss them? What would you be doing differently? Would you be lonely? How would it change your life? Being in this sexless marriage, is it healthy for you?

Please don’t make any hasty decisions; take your time and think it all through. Would it be possible to have an honest and open discussion with your spouse? Do you think it would help? Could the problems be worked out?

Your happiness is what matters the most. You must do what is right for you, but don’t rush into a divorce without thoughtful consideration. Don't forget - sexual problems can be worked out. They didn’t happen overnight and they can't be solved overnight, but they can be solved. It will take an effort from both spouses and honest communication without blame to get the sex back in your marriage.

If you are willing to work out the problems in your relationship, then you should stay in your sexless marriage and make it a sexy marriage instead.

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